Dark Women Only Have 1 Problem

I use the term dark to classify people with a lot of melanin. Dark seems to be the more accurate term to use right now. Many people are criticizing dark women all over the internet for what they do wrong, but dark women only really have 1 problem. Dark women are living their lives backwards. They live from the position of me outward instead of living from a position of community. The dark woman works hard to try to gain as much resources as she can for herself first. After she has satisfied herself she will try to help others. One problem is that she never fully satisfies herself because other communities that live off of her work makes sure that she wants more. The other thing is that all of her hard work is used to keep other communities in tact while her community is neglected. The dark woman forces her man to go out and work as hard as her to pay bills which enrich other communities, while he loses his mind. Eventually the dark woman is alone. If the dark woman were to demand from her men to create a community where she can sustain a family and her children can develop he would do it and she would be successful. The dark woman would probably not have as much stuff in a healthy community, but how valuable is stuff in a fractured community?